Remembrance

Today is the two year anniversary of Mum’s death. On the day of the funeral, one of her close friends from Ballarat brought with her a poem to be read at her service. It was perfect:

Coming out in PINK
 
Not Baby Pink
Not wishy-washy frilly
little girl pink
but strong
bold
hot
woman pink
brave
as the proverbial petunia
my coming out colour
pink shirts laughing
at straid men
in business suits
making them uncomfortable
making them think
I might actually like being a woman
risky, unpredicatable, mocking
loud, shocking pink
poking its tongue out
no wonder they hate it
no wonder they never wear
pink
too scary
a woman’s colour
not safe, neutral, serious grey
trust me blue
you can’t trust a woman
in pink
you never know what she might do next
what she’s thinking
drastic, subversive pink
the way she splashes it around
undermines you
flouts your authority
it’s not obediant pink
not silent pink
not pretend-I’m-not-here-don’t-listen-to-me-I’m-not-important pink
it’s move-over-here-I-come-don’t-take-your-eyes-off-me pink
It’s pink that knows where it’s going and you are in the way.
 
Poem by Lissa Mitchell.

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